Things Spanking Is About

A post on spanking from the sub’s point of view, that has escaped from the walled garden of Fetlife onto the open internet:

It’s not about the pain.
It’s about the feeling.
It’s about the surrender.
It’s about the bending over for you.
It’s about the anticipation.
It’s about the screaming.
It’s about the crying.
It’s about the sobs.
It’s about the tears.
It’s about the giggles.
It’s about the stinging I know you feel in your hands.
It’s about the sweat beading on your forehead.
It’s about the heat coming from my backside.
It’s about the effort it takes to not turn and hit you back.
It’s about the time you spend with just me.
It’s about the energy you give that’s all mine.
It’s about the emotion I give that’s all yours.
It’s about the overflow of thoughts.
It’s about the emptying of my mind each time your hand connects.
It’s about the hug when we are finished.
It’s about the release.
It’s about the freedom.
It’s about the control I give up to you.
It’s about the “thank you” I manage to breathe out.

Its not about the pain.
It’s about the experience.

A Hard Bondage Paddling

There’s a certain cruel genius at work here, with the powerful vibrator tightly tied to her as he wields the leather paddle:

hard bondage spanking with slut-imprint stencil leather paddle

If you look closely at the marks on her bottom, you can see that he must be using one of those “slut” stencil paddles with the cutaway surface that lets you write on a bottom with spanking marks.

Panels are from the Dofantasy comic Confiscated Twins 5 by Fernando.

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Spanking Is Applause

spanking applause

“Spanking is a one-handed round of applause in appreciation of a magnificent ass.” Yup! And every ass is magnificent in its own way, too.

From Tumblr.

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The Dance Of The Stinging Nettles

This BDSM stinging nettle sex play sounds amazingly painful for her and quite fun for him, especially if he enjoys helpless squirming:

When the time comes for him to punish me with the nettles I have to strip completely naked. He then ties the string of nettles just above my waist so that they hang down like a skirt over my stomach and bottom and down the front of my thighs. He hangs the other two bunches around my neck, one hanging down my back and the other at the front brushing across and between my breasts.

The burning sting of the nettles as they brush against my skin already makes me twitch but then to increase the torment he will put some music on and have me dance for him so that the nettles sway back and forth, stinging me more, or sometimes he makes me perform exercises while wearing the nettles. Running or jumping on the spot make the nettles jerk about and bounce against my skin, pushing stings in deeply. If I don’t perform well enough he uses the other bunch of long stemmed nettles like a goad, to sting me in places the other nettles don’t reach. He brushes them lightly up and down the backs of my legs to sting the backs of my thighs and my calves if my dancing is not sexy enough or thrusts the nettles in between my legs if I’m not jumping up high enough in exercises. If I don’t use my arms enough when dancing, or lift them right up when doing exercises he will use the bunch to sting me in the armpits and on the soft flesh under my arms.

When he eventually he has amused himself enough and I am stung and burning all over, I have to put on my ‘nettle dress’, a simple shift-style dress made of thick vinyl, which is proof against nettle stings. Once I’m in that I can be made to wear the nettles for as long as he wants without interfering with normal activities. It is quite painful when I sit down and the nettles are crushed against my skin but I’m careful not to lean back in the seat so as to stop the same thing happening to my back.

Eventually, though, he will decide he wants to make love, which is the most painful part of all. I can lift my plastic skirts enough to cut away the few nettles hanging down directly over my vagina and then I lie back and open my legs. The dress has a small ready-made cut out so that I can remain fully dressed in my plastic and nettles. It is painful enough when I lie back, but when his weight comes on top of me as he penetrates me all the nettles are crushed into my skin front and back and it is really agonising. He likes the feeling of the warm plastic against his skin and presses hard against me. It really turns him on, knowing that he’s feeling the smooth slipperiness of the vinyl against his skin while on the other side of it I am suffering a thousand burning agonies of the stinging nettles being crushed against my skin. He tells me how funny he finds our contrasting sensations, as he thrusts into me taking his pleasure and sees me wincing and my eyes watering from the pain.

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Date Night Spanking Toy Discussion

I like that Mr. Pete and Ana Foxxx are shown having an animated happy discussion of which spanking implements to use on her. I love the fact that this comes from a photoshoot on Sex And Submission that’s called Date Night:

date night discussion: flogger or cane?

My kind of date night, yup yup:

date night bondage caning

And some of my favorite date night positions and activities, too.

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Supervising The 69 With A Whip

Quite honestly I don’t see how Our Mistress Of The Sixty-Nine here could hope to swing that whip without the man on the job being at risk of losing an eye. Perhaps the martinet is merely the badge of her supervisory office, and her moral authority is sufficient to carry everyone through the task?

woman with a martinet whip supervises closely as two other people enjoy some mutual oral sex

Via Vintage Lust.

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Mouthsoaping For Men

I took a wrong turn while I was lost in the deep Googles, and wound up stumbling over a couple of photos of a naughty young man getting a punishment mouthsoaping. It’s a bit of a role reversal here at Spanking Blog, but perhaps some of you will nonetheless enjoy:

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Pictures date from 2007 and are from a “male-to-male discipline” site called Spanking Central.

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