After a long period of quiet, during which you might have got out of the habit of checking, Bethie’s started posting a few blog posts again. In particular, she just posted a bit about the fun we’re having with her new favorite paddle. It’s really the first one we’ve come across that she has a hard time holding still for…
It’s unusual to see marks in a vintage spanking image, but the costumes (and facial hair!) seem authentic enough. And I like the formality which leads to woman with a bare bottom still wearing her fancy hat:
Keeping Bethie’s hands away from her nipples when I’m spanking ’em with a little strap (or whatever) is always an issue, but I confess it never seemed practical to try heavy steel chains and shackles:
However, it sure seems to be working on Bella Rossi at Sex and Submission. So much so, in fact, that I can’t resist zooming in with a tighter crop to show her anguished face:
Since this is supposed to be the busiest shopping day of 2008, I went online to see what looked good.
I was delighted to see the wide-ended basic black riding crop — it’s the best crop I’ve ever had in my hands, because it goes from gentle tapping to serious thwacking based on a minor and easily controlled variations in how much swing I put into it. Plus, it lands right where I want it to go.
(This is the crop we had to get another one of, after this.)
To be honest, I get even more use out of the short version, because it fits in a travel bag and is controllable enough to use on Bethie’s breasts and nipples when we’re gettin’ busy and she needs a quick reminder about who’s in charge. But the long version is essential if you want a crop that can give punishment or pleasure, variably, at your whim.
Last night while he was working on the computer, I laid down next to him and made a big show of taking off my bra and massaging the areas where the underwire cut into me.
Of course, Dan took the bait and rewarded my efforts with several hard nipple pinches before reaching in his desk drawer for the small riding crop. I like that he keeps that thing handy. He spanked my tits with the crop and I loved every second of it.
Dan finished off by giving me a couple of hard ones right on my nipples and I laughed out loud. I don’t know why I do that. Intense play which should make me yelp makes me laugh sometimes. I don’t care though and Dan likes it.
It was short and sweet but my nipples stung nicely for quite a while. Gotta love that!
Other enticements were old favorites in the category I like to call “serious bondage for bondage idiots” (which would be me). I am referring to the simple spandex hoods with built-in blindfolds (one with a mouth hole for when you might need a blowjob, one without).
They just slip on like a ski mask, no messing with buckles and straps and no worries about collar tightness at the neck, and you can breath through them just fine, so no worries there; plus they come off instantly if the hoodee panics when you aren’t wanting that. They look nifty, especially if your girl has been trying to control you with pouting and remonstrative looks. But, best of all from my spanker perspective, they are utterly effective as blindfolds, with no peeking possible. No more will she get away with cheating at your game of “guess the instrument”! I love these things, end of story.
There’s nice panty management in this photoseries of an OTK spanking from Spanking And Shame. And perhaps it’s just me, but I think the model has a really pretty butt: