Love Before Spankings

From this post over on Taken In Hand, where they talk a lot about dominance and submission in the context of domestic discipline relationships, some sound advice:

First of all, it has to be understood that if I didn’t love her I couldn’t do this. To any man wanting this lifestyle, there are three unbreakable rules. Rule # One, you gotta love her! Full stop. Rule Two, see rule One. Rule # Three, see Rule ## 1 and 2. No exceptions. If you don’t love her and I mean really love her, then do not proceed.

Understanding & Spanking Women

From an amusing article by John Ross entitled “Understanding Women & ‘The Rules’ For Men: or, Think of It Like Driving In England“, this simple rule from the “how to stop screwing up like you’ve been doing” section:

Spank her. Spank her bottom lightly when she does something you don’t like. Spank her harder when she does something good. I discovered this years ago and the worst results I’ve ever gotten were neutral. The best were volcanic. (I don’t do this unless I know at least her first name, but that’s just me–it’s probably not necessary.)

John’s not very politically correct, and it’s possible he’s spent too much time on the Fast Seduction website, but I won’t argue with him about this bit of advice!

Hot Thoughts About Caning

When I saw the first thing SxySubSlut posted on her blog my first thought was to wonder amusedly how she typed it with one hand. It starts:

god i am such a horny little tart, not a day goes by without me getting my fingers in my knickers thinking about being bent over, caned hard and fucked rotten…

mmmm i want it RIGHT NOW, yes not a surprise to many of you i am sure that slaves are as demanding as masters in their own way…

and ooh yes i do cop it, believe me, this dirty little slut gets a regular disciplining from her Master

mmmm i love to bend over and take it from him, watch his reaction as he enjoys my suffering i can be such a good compliant slave, willing to be disciplined…

mmm i want it now!!!! i’m really horny!!!

Koonago Spanking

The winner of this week’s link-fu contest is Koonago Factory, an exceedingly strange Japanese website featuring anime-style artwork of adult women (well, as adult as anime women ever are) who have been shrunk down to various small sizes and subjected to a wide variety of indignities. Including spanking:

koonago miniature women spanked

You know you needed to see that.

The Spanking Chair

It’s been a little while since I posted links to any spanking stories here. But here’s a cute one that I haven’t seen before, about a bratty young wife learning some manners:

“STOPPPPP!!!!” Poor thing. He didn’t stop. SMACK! SMACK! He smacked a perfect oval that went just to the top of her thighs, up over one cheek, down the other cheek to the thigh again. He took his time and made sure he covered the area thoroughly.

Her bursts of anger were slowing down finally. But I could tell his hand was beginning to hurt. That’s when he spotted it. The wooden hairbrush on the dresser was just out of reach.

Well her tone changed when that hairbrush smacked her left cheek. But before she could say a word, another SMACK! hit her right cheek. He was working fast now. The hairbrush came down on her hot cheeks again and again. Not till he turned her bottom a dark red and she was begging, pleading and promising to be good, did he finally stop.

From “The Chair” by Jules.

Sweet Sorority Spanking

Here’s a publicity still from the 1932 movie “Sweetheart of Sigma Chi”:

Sweetheart of Sigma Chi spanking photo

Aren’t these girls some cuties?

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Melting Down With Style

I love this article in which CruelLadyScorpio defines the different levels of “dominant strop”. (For those of us who speak a version of English other than the Queen’s own, a strop is something like a tantrum or an angry fit.) Anyway, I especially like her description of the Grade A dominant strop:

Grade A: Only for use when you’re incandescent with rage due to something like a repeat infringement. Ensure object of your fury is kneeling or sitting. Stand up slowly to achieve full Dom Loom as angry flush creeps up neck into cheeks. Allow face to achieve quality of granite. Glare. Stride off suddenly, swiftly and emphatically, so sub needs a moment to twig what’s going on. Try not to trip over. Hide, preferably outside, and take deep breaths until you’ve got yourself under control. Cry a bit if required to relieve tension. By the time sub has found you, you’re ready to deal with situation rationally. Fetch cane.