Loving And Hating The Pain

Kaya at Under His Hand got a pussy spanking with a riding crop the other day (there are pictures). Her reaction made me smile, as it perfectly embodies some of the contradictory feelings about pain the you encounter in the kinky world:

I loathe pussy pain. I hate it. I hate it so much I crave it because that’s what dumbass masochists DO. So He laid me down, spread my legs and … made it hurt.

And I love/hated it. More love than hate considering that I’ve masturbated to the memory a billion times. Next time, I hope He’s even meaner.

I tried to get away but He had me locked in thumb cuffs. Who knew you could be so trapped by just your thumbs!

  1. Mia commented on July 29th, 2008:

    oooo… no, can’t do much pussy spanking. my clit is too sensitive for it. but i do so love a thigh spanking.

  2. SpankBoss commented on July 29th, 2008:

    Heh, Mia, phrasings like that tend to get Bethie in trouble. When she says “too sensitive” I hear “I won’t be able to hold still for that” and my Mr. Fix-It response is to go and get the leather straps. ;-)

  3. Mia commented on July 30th, 2008:

    lol, guess my husband’s a softie then :) my clit says “thank god”

  4. SpankBoss commented on July 30th, 2008:

    Eh, I’m too much of a softie myself, but at least my way I get to hear a lot of interesting pleading and begging before I, inevitably, relent. :(

  5. Mia commented on July 30th, 2008:

    My husband’s a softie when he’s sober, I should say. When he gets a few drinks in him, though, he’ll test those too sensitive spots. Is he trying to see if they’re still sensitive or you think he likes hearing my cries of “uncle?” Or maybe he’s trying to do it to have something to make up for later? *shrug*

    And from what I’ve read about you, you’re not a softie :) Your spankings sound thorough enough.

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