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Although I’m flattered by the idea that someone thought it would work, the comments here at Spanking Blog are not an appropriate place to post spanking personals. Accordingly, I’ve deleted one that said, in its entirety:

iwant to make relation with one
women who like be spanking

I trust my female readers will not be unduly distressed that I have failed to reproduce the accompanying email address?

My advice to spanking lovelorn guys: there are a startling number of women out there who want to be spanked and say they can’t find a man to do the job. The thing is, most of them aren’t going to want to meet you right away — that’s just too dangerous and freaky. So go and find yourself an online spanking community based around a bulletin board system (Spanking Classics is a good one) and participate on the boards. Be yourself, be fun and funny if you can pull it off, and above all, be honest about who you are. Keep at it (we are talking months, here) and before you know it, women who now know you and like you will start sending you friendly emails and IMs on totally innocuous subjects. What you do then is left as an exercise for the student. Trust me, you’ll be harvested.

I speak from (happy) experience here.

This is in the nature of one of those old hand-tinted postcards, which were made by watercolor painting on black-and-white photographs. However, something about the colors suggests to me that it’s a recent Photoshop “improvement” on an uncolored image. Does anybody have the unaltered image?

Amber has written an interesting essay on the different kinds of spankings in her marriage — disciplinary, authoritative, reassurance, playful, and erotic. But what I liked best was her summation, because it’s a refreshing counterpart to all the blogs and journals and articles out there by people who have found the One True Spanking Answer For Everyone:

Now, there are all kinds of theories regarding the spankings themselves and when it should or should not be used and many people feel very strongly about their own particular theory.

Some people believe that spanking should never be done before sex because we moronic women might start “acting out” like Pavlov’s dogs in order to receive the sex that we really want but are apparently unable to ask for. Other people believe it’s wrong to ever use spanking erotically in any way whatsoever (so help you God). And even more people who believe disciplinary spankings are completely outrageous and spankings should ONLY be used erotically in an official BDSM “scene” and those of us who use spanking as actual discipline in a relationship have completely lost our minds.

Dan and I started out with our own very rigid ideas about spanking too, mostly because we didn’t know much about it and the unknown can be a scary thing. It’s funny to read some of the early entries and how determined we were on keeping erotic apart from discipline and how discipline spankings were only to be used as a last resort. As time has gone on and the discipline spankings have become less awkward, we’ve relaxed about all that.

When it happens, it happens. Does it really matter why if it works for whatever we’re using it for?

No indeed, it does not!

There’s a nice new look at the top of The Collar Purple today. What’s more, Invidia has done a yummy portrait of Blonde rubbing her bottom.

Uh, that last “her” refers to Blonde, not Invidia. Although the other way around makes for an interesting mental image.

Go take a look, and then send Invidia nice emails. She likes her some nice emails!

Here’s a slightly-vintage (or possibly faux-vintage) spanking picture from the “Oh, his hand is made of terrible burning fire, I must scream in the most exquisite agony if he rests it on my buttocks!” school of bogus spanking pictures. Somehow I don’t believe this model ever actually got a spanking worthy of that agonized face:

But it’s still a most fetching tableaux, as I’m sure you will agree.

A reader wrote in with a request that I’m utterly unqualified to help with, but perhaps someone else here can help:

“I came across one of the links you had for July- it was the “Continuing Saga of Jules” at the Grandpa’s Reading Room link, when I saw the pictures that accompanied the part two story of her night out on the town. “Jules” had on a pair of those seamless see-through undies that I have been trying in vain to locate. I
have been searching for a pair of that same type of lingerie undies in a
size seven and have been unsuccessful. Please help. If you know where I can
get a pair those, please email me- I find them rather cute and appealing and
my husband wants to try our own spanking stories with me in them.”

If anybody knows, please feel free to leave the answer in the comments.

Danor has an interesting post up about the dilemma of wanting to be spanked, but not wanting to ask. It starts with her usual exuberant paean to the joys inherent:

I do want to be spanked– vigorously and often. I like the feelings of submissiveness and floatiness that spanking produces in me, and I like showing Kam how thoroughly I yield myself to him, and– at least with the cane– I like the physical sensation itself. It is a fact I’ve had to come to grips with, that my bottom actually physically craves spanking, in the same way my cunt physically craves to be fucked and my clit to be licked. It gets this itchy, untouched feeling, and I just want someone to beat it bright red.

But of course there’s much much more.