“Deep Tissue Massage” — My Way

So, last night Bethie was scratching at her bottom and complaining that it itched, due to some healing from a spanking on Friday night. Then she started pulling down her panties and showing me her “poor abused” bottom and demanding that I provide some deep tissue massage.

So I did. My way.

My way, of course, involved judicious application of the paddle with holes (like this one) and the rubber paddle. Plus a bit of work with the red lollipop crop to touch up areas previously missed.

It worked, too! By the time I was done, itching was not what Bethie was complaining about.

Eventually she found a pleasant way to distract me. Even later, I finally had to concede that her bottom needed some lotion … which by then, it genuinely did.

Wife In Need Of A Spanking

According to Richard Windsor, this photo is from a reader submission to Janus magazine:

bent over wife

Cute Under The Whip

She has the cutest facial expressions when she’s being whipped:

cute girl grimacing as she\'s being whipped

whipped girl rubbing her sore bottom

From Pain Gate.

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Negotiating With Erica

You hear a lot in the BDSM world about negotiation, because it’s freakin’ important. But a lot of times, people don’t know how to do it … or they think it has to be some outside-the-conversation serious heavy moment. It doesn’t. I think this anecdote by Erica Scott (about a night when she wore a collar and got tied up, and yes there are fun photos) is an excellent example of how you can negotiate quite edgy (as defined by the participants) play without really even breaking the flow of your conversation:

“I could use a beck-and-call girl, myself,” he mused, winding his hand into my hair and tightening his fist. “I think I should make you MY little spank slave.”

“Right,” I scoffed.

“I have a collar and leash right here in my bag,” he said, watching my face closely. “I think I should put it on you, what do you think?”

He was checking with me. I knew it. I blustered, “Oh my god! You’ve GOT to be @#$%ing kidding me!”

But I didn’t say no. And so the collar went around my neck.

Only with someone I trust this much, would I go there. I constantly amaze myself with the things I’m willing to do with him, things that are so out of my little play box. And tonight, that was just what I needed.

He made me crawl into my bedroom on my hands and knees, and once I was on the bed, I had to take off all my clothes…

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Who Is This Man Spanking?

Chross would like to know who Al Siegel is spanking in this picture. He thinks he’s already ruled out Ethel Merman:

Al Siegel spanking an unknown woman, probably a singer

If you recognize her, let him (and us) know!

Give ‘Er Da Boot!

This is a clever clever paddle, and one I very much wish I had. Behold, the Jackboot Paddle:

boot sole rubber paddle

From the sales info page:

Give them the boot! The Raging Stallion Jackboot Paddle packs a wallop, leaving a distinct impression; a rubber boot sole, size 14, on one side of this 18-inch oak paddle means one solid smack leaves a classic boot-bottom imprint on the ass of the receiver. This spanker is very effective, and you need not even lift your own feet off the floor while spanking that naughty bottom. This clever spanker’s smooth and slightly rounded edges thoughtfully include a black rubber-coated grip to protect your own hands from chafing as you turn those cheeks cherry red.

It’s the oak backing that makes this thing so impressive — it’s got to have an amazingly solid swat!

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A Lecture And A Punishment

OK, so I know some spanko girls for whom a spanking just isn’t the same if it doesn’t come with a stern lecture. But you know what? I think even they would agree, this is going too far:

a whipping and a prepared lecture

Odds are, that’s supposed to be a Bible, and what she’s actually getting is a sermon on the need to change her wicked ways…