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When you’re rich and decadent, sometimes you need a little sportive whipping action to get everybody riled up for the orgy. Maybe it’s a little hard on the wench who gets whipped, but since when do the lusts of the nobility pause in concern over trifles like that?
Artist is Erich von Götha.
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Bondage Blog says this woman is about to get a ferocious titty-switching, which would explain the unhappy expression. “She has been watching you cut and peel a switch for her boobs, and she’s not at all happy about it!” Indeed:
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We used to have a lot more interesting spanking discussions, back before a few centralized social media platforms ate all the special interest fetish communities. On spanking forums and newsgroups and bulletin boards and blogs, we’d talk about all kinds of spanking questions. One of the perennial “interesting questions” that used to get discussed a lot among people who enjoy the spanking fetish had to do with dating and spanking. Specifically, should you spank or get spanked on the first date?
It was a good question. I mean, spanking can be pretty chaste. Nobody’s panties have to come down, although it’s a lot more fun if they do; you can deliver or receive a perfectly fine spanking through street clothes. The same is true of kissing, right? You can kiss your date with considerable verve and passion right in the middle of a public restaurant, if you know what you’re doing; you don’t actually have to give him or her a hickey or put your tongue in their mouth to make it serious.
On the other hand, a good spanking involves a lot of trust. The artwork accompanying this post, by Milo Manara, illustrates what surely looks like it was a good spanking. If near strangers are going to share that kind of intimacy, the chemistry needs to be good, and the setting needs to be safe.
Another issue is the matter of spanking and sex. For some people; spanking is foreplay; it’s how they get sexually excited before the main event. People like this might engage in very light spanking the same way they might make out with someone they were considering having sex with, but they often won’t want to engage in heavy spanking unless they are pretty sure they’d also like to do other sexual stuff after the spanking.
Whereas, there are other people who say that for them, there’s nothing sexual at all about spanking. It’s a purely aesthetic or sensual pleasure for them, one they are happy to engage in with platonic play partners with whom they never expect to do sexual things of any kind. People like this, when matched with play partners of like mind, are a lot more likely to spank upon early and easy acquaintance, for obvious reasons!
A first date between spanking fetishists is sometimes a minefield. Even if they both know they like spanking, have they worked out before the date whether they are “spanking is sex” or “spanking is just sensual fun” spankos? And do they know if they are matched in this regard, or mismatched? Things get tricky fast if good communication is not happening!
But that, of course, is a problem that’s hardly unique to spanking daters. Be safe out there, communicate as best you can about what you want, and try to have fun!
It’s pretty much a solid rule of thumb that if you offer a spanking as one of two punishment alternatives, and they take it, it’s not going to have the desired effect. But if you’re a kinky nun, it looks good at your eventual trial, and makes you harder to complain about meanwhile:
Artist is Jennifer Finch.
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I’m not sure whether this handcuffed anime girl got her bottom reddened after she was handcuffed to the overhead pipes in that basement, or whether it was already like that when she got put there:
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Two things are clear in this old-fashioned switching artwork by Kindinov. First, this switching is only just getting started; and second, the defiant blonde doesn’t feel even a little bit remorseful about whatever she is being punished for. I hope her bottom is as tough as her attitude!
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The public spanking wasn’t the worst part. No, the fact that her so-called friends were recording it on their phones to humiliate her with later: that was the worst part!
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