How to Get Your Partner To Spank You
Here’s another one of these how-to articles, namely, “How to Get Your Partner to Spank You (No Matter How Politically Incorrect It Is)” by Miss Lee. [link broken and removed] Written from the feminine perspective, although the wording is mostly gender-neutral:
But back to the present and the problem at hand, namely, how do you get your partner/lover to give you a good, old fashioned walloping? Let’s say you’re normally a take-charge woman, independent as heck, know what you want and how to ask for it. Yet, when it comes to the S word, you’re so nervous you feel like you’re on a first date. At fourteen. With a huge zit on your face.
Full of sensible advice well presented. But I gotta say, it’s startling how many of these articles are floating around out there, mostly written by women. Other than on the internet, where are all these frustrated lady spankos hiding?
As a heterosexual male who has also always been shy around women (namely, those whom I found attractive in some manner) most of my life, while some of the women in my past relationships were not adverse to “spanking play” in the bedroom, they just weren’t into it themselves, and or had some form of inhibition(s) to it that ultimately resulted in less than satisfying practices of spanking; in at least two instances, they were the ones who wanted to be spanked, but were too shy to even talk about it, let alone practice this deeply sensual and intimate, highly-arousing art. At least two former girlfriends just out and out refused to give me a spanking under any circumstances, one of whom said to me “if you ask me to spank you one more time, I’m going to break-up with you.” After a couple of short-lived relationships, I met my first steady girlfriend — she didn’t have a problem with giving me a spanking most any time or place. We were both young, and after two years we went our separate ways. And the spanking subject went back to being “an issue” again. Thirty-two years after my first steady, we somehow found each other again, both divorced, and now married to each other — all I can think about on any given day is the next time she’s going to beat my bare-butt with a thick wooden paddle again. My best (and only) advice is: DON’T GIVE UP! NEVER GIVE UP!