Spanking Blog: Adult Erotic Spanking At Its Best

“Sometimes, she can be very reluctant to lend herself to the game what conceives well enough, it’s necessary to recognize it. My dear wife lends herself more or less gladly to the spanking. She has periods, if I dare to say that. It’s very evident that Annie isn’t all day long ready to play the submissive wive and ready to offer the buttocks to the punishment.”

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“Sometimes, we quarrel and our somersaults know some brackets: knocks of cold on our libido! To seek a spanking is for her a means to terminate a sulkiness, a subtlety to revive the flame. ”

Found here.

An article by JJ, who wanted discipline spankings from her husband. The strategy in a nutshell: Soften him up with some good old “Surrendered Wife” treatment, followed by:

I went to him and said something like, “I need you to spank me. I need to be spanked because I did X, and I am sorry I did X. Your spanking me for this mistake would make me feel cherished and loved by you.” I tried to put it in the perspective of my needs in a positive way, and handed him a paddle.

To my surprise, he didn’t ridicule me or act hostile. Instead, he looked at me, said, “All right,” and spanked me. When he asked me at one point when he should stop, I said, “You decide when I’ve had enough.” So he paddled me a couple dozen more times (which I didn’t expect!), only really hard. I stayed bent over till he told me I was done, and that was truly my first disciplinary spanking. It really hurt, so of course I was pleased. It meant he was taking it seriously as discipline.

Hubby sounds like a pretty lucky man.

A tired blogging convention to be sure — I can hear people saying “That’s so two years ago!” — but it hardly seems fair to cruise along blogging up a storm in complete silence about the personality behind the anonymous blog. So for what it’s worth:

1) The nickname “SpankBoss” is arrant self-aggrandizement, as I am nobody’s boss but my own, and I haven’t spanked anybody lately.

2) I’m your fairly typical internet horndog — male, thirties, professionally self-employed, too fat, a little bit geeky, not as social as I’d like to be, and with too much time on my hands since the serious girlfriend (well, I was serious) got married to the older fatter fellow she found on ICQ. I guess he gave good keyboard.

3) Fetish is to sex like spice is to food. Spanking, bondage, power exchange, dominance and submission — it’s all big fun, but it’s no substitute for a solid loving relationship. Within one, it’s a damnably delicious condiment.

4) Why spanking? It’s hard to be successfully introspective about the things that make us hot. But if you’ll accept an armchair-psychology self-analysis, I think it’s a power-and-revenge thing. But that sounds…well, not worse, but perhaps more important, than it should? It’s no big deal. Rather, like most mild fetishes, it’s more of a vestigial thing, a left-over artifact of a bad adolescent decade. Like most guys who aren’t jocks or hunks, I was pretty frustrated as a young man, and got told “no” a lot, or (worse) ignored. Spanking a woman (in fantasy, against her will; in reality, with her consent) amounts to a spot of harmless payback. It’s sexually hot because when a woman is being spanked, she is, literally and symbolically speaking, in no position to say “no.” If she could (in fantasy), or would (in reality), it would have happened already. I guess you could say spanking liberates my inner mustache-twirling dastardly villain. All in good dirty fun of course.

5) I have an irrational aversion to internet chat. (See #2 above.) Voice of Foghorn Leghorn: “I say, that was a joke, son, a joke I say!”

That’ll do for a start.

Here’s a silly animated spanking in .gif format:

From spankoz.net:

Wife Says 4th of July Spanking OK

The complaint brought against John James Edyk of 183 North First Street in the Court of Special Sessions by his wife was dismissed today. Mrs. Emma Edyk changed her mind and said it was okay for him to spank her.

Mrs. Emma Edyk told the court through her lawyer, Mr. Spiro that it was okay for her husband to spank her. The punishment was not severe, neither was it cruel, and she says her husband acted within his rights. She desires to withdraw the complaint and will consent that he go free.

In the complaint filed, Mrs. Edyk’s lawyer Mr. Spiro said: “Mr. Edyk was celebrating Independence Day and came home feeling happy. Mrs Edyk remonstrated him because of his hilarity. At bedtime just after completing her nightly prayers and about to get into bed, she felt obligated to remonstrate him again about the evils of alcohol. Mr. Edyk then picked her up, sat on the edge of the bed and laying her face down across his lap began spanking in the old fashion way. The spanking was not severe but humiliating. Mrs Edyk had not been spanked in the old fashion was since she was a schoolgirl of seventeen.”

— Brooklyn Union Dispatch, July 7, 1902

…of an even more obviously fictional nature:

Finally, when he opened the door between the bath and the bedroom, he saw his wife bent over the edge of the bed with nothing on as he had ordered. Her perfectly rounded upturned cheeks were losing some of their redness now, but they were still quite pink, causing his erection to swell to mammoth proportions.

“Spread your legs, Brianna,” he ordered calmly as he stood behind her, “and hold your bottom higher.”

Brianna shivered, thinking he was going to use the belt on her, but she did as he told her, parting her legs and pushing her cheeks higher into the air exposing the soft blond curls covering her sex.

“Good girl,” Michael told her as her plunged his manhood into her, causing her to moan loudly. “Michael, you’re hurting me,” she complained. Michael halted and leaned over her placing his mouth close to her ear and slipping his hands underneath her breast feeling her nipples respond immediately to his touch. “Would you rather that I pulled out of you and took you across my knee?” he asked. Michael’s eyes widened as he felt her tighten around him, squeezing his cock.

“No, please Michael I don’t want another spanking,” she told him, as she began to work back and forth against him. Not able to hold back any longer, he exploded inside her with a force he had never known before.

From Michael’s Bride, author unknown.

See Also:

• The Return Of "Should Wives Be Spanked?"
• Wife Spanking And Regular Sex
• Bondage, Spanking, And Sex
• A Little Spanking And Some Rough Sex
• Sex & Marriage Advice For Vanillas

Here’s an awesome gallery of “beaten anime” cartoon spanking pictures like this one: