Spanking Blog: Adult Erotic Spanking At Its Best

You know a spanking post is going to be worth your time when it starts:

After hearing rumours that IKEA was a great place to look for fun and naughty toys, it took only a moments urging before my honey and I headed out to the enormous yellow and blue box in search of fun.

This is also promising:

Shortly after we arrived home my honey decided it was time to find out if this little spatula was worth its money. He roughly pushed my over the back of our black leather couch, pulled my tight jeans down to my knees, tied my arms behind my back and lightly tapped my backside with his hand.

It gets better from there — complete with photograph! Thanks to My Not-So-Secret Self for the, er, blow-by-blow.

Here’s a public spanking picture from Usenet which appears from the outfits to be taking place at some sort of media con or fan gathering. The young lady with the paddle looks like she’s putting her whole body into that whack:

If you frequent the spanking discussion boards (like Bethie’s Spanking Den) long enough, you’ll find some confusion (believe it or not) over the question of whether spankings hurt. Once, on another board, Bethie and I laughed (gently) together over a post by a young lady who’d finally gotten a spanking after years of fantasizing. Paraphrased and abridged from much greater length, she said “Gee…. it really hurt … a lot … I wasn’t really expecting that.”

Despite sympathy for someone whose partner obviously didn’t stay in good touch with what she wanted and needed, we couldn’t help laughing a little. What, we wondered, was she expecting exactly?

Another common thread on the boards is the question “Why do I/we/you like it?”

Here from The Warren is a post combining both of these themes:

if it didn’t hurt, i’d be doing some serious reality checking on a regular basis. waht the fuck? just becuase i like it means that the rules of science all ofa sudden quite working? sheesh. yeah it hurts. and yeah i like it.. why? honestly, i have no fucking clue. it probably has something to do with socialisationa nd sexual psychology, and a lot to do with endorphins and stuff, and i COULD go into a big long tirade, but basically? i like the way i feel when it happens…

Now, that’s a refreshing change from the usual over-analysis!

How about a nice cup of spanking? The following illustration was emailed to me by a reader (thanks, Pete!) who reports that it was found in England in an exhibit about the history of cocoa:

Apparently the Marquis enjoyed a little pick-me-up with his flagellation?

Update: Apparently he did.

Here’s another naked spanking from Sex And Submission:

This one is especially fun because if you watch the whole video shoot, you can hear him telling her (as he spanks her) exactly what he’s going to do to her next — and then you get to watch him do it, too, right down to the blindfolded blowjob, the flogging, and the vigorous anal sex.

Have you ever been spanked with a common household vegetable?

Extremely refreshing observation from Jake Bullet:

“I think its official. I am a dirty pervert. Oh well, I kind of like it. Moving along.”

Maybe it’s just because I read so many blogs where folks are exploring their own sexual thinking, but after awhile I grow weary (and, sadly, impatient) with the endless self-analysis, guilt, and fear that so many kinky people are dealing with. I suspect every kinky person goes through this at some point, but the idea is to work through it, become comfortable with who you are, and start having fun. Unfortunately, some people just get stuck there, and don’t seem to be able to give themselves permission to be happy kinksters.

Moving along….