Should Wives Be Spanked?
Men always ask.
Well, that’s what the magazine cover says anyway:
I don’t think the answer is in doubt.
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Of course! It keeps everyone happy in my family. A woman’s body is designed to be spanked regulary. It should always be done out of love or fun not as abuse. I crave my spankings & get sad when I can not get them regulary. It is sad that more women are not aware of this and that spanking has to be so taboo in main streem culture.
Wonderful. lol. Where on earth do you find such relics.
The best spanking experience I have had with my wife was when my cousin visited us for a weekend, and she offended him badly…. after an apology, I took her aside and told her that she needed for HIM to give her a spanking across her bare heinie for forgiveness, and to my shock, she relented. So she dropped her pants and underpants and bent over his knee, and again asked for forgiveness, I suggested 50 hard swats, which he administered quite powerfully, she cried, was horribly embarassed, and afterward, she had a much better attitude
Of course naughty wives should be spanked, good and plenty times.
Yes, wives should be spanked. Since your readers are undoubtedly familiar with most of the reasons, I will only offer here two which are somewhat subtle.
(1) Wives should be spanked just before going out for the evening, say to a dinner party, and you want to enjoy the unspoken but shocked horror on women’s faces, and the snickering, winks, and nudges of the men, as they notice that whenever she sits, she winces and squirms a little.
(2) Wives should be spanked when you will be mounting her from behind (“doggy style”), and you want to enjoy how she flinches when your lower abdomen rubs against her reddened, tender buttocks still burning from the pain of a good paddling.
I get spanked now and again, mostly as a teasing “you’ve been naughty” kind of thing. (I’m not a bad girl, but I love to tease!) I do wish I knew women in my area who also get spanked by their husbands. It would be nice to have someone who understands this. Anyone out there in Des Moines?
My husbank spanks me when the housework is not to his liking. I was furious at first, but now my housework is much better and I am very grateful to him.
Absolutely! I have been married 14 years and I spank my wife 1 or 2 times a week. She wants the man to be the man, and put her in her place……..which is over my knee!
We have been married for 23 years and my husband still spanks me when I deserve it. There are no arguments and it is over and done with quickly.
Yes! The man should spank his wife when she misbehaves and also as a “reminder” weekly. Why else did God give women such spankable bottoms?
I don’t mind being spanked when I’ve done something wrong but why should I be spanked when I haven’t? I don’t need a ‘reminder’ every week. I know very well what to expect when I misbehave. As for women having spankable bottoms mine was made for sitting on as well and I like to do this without any discomfort.
The Man should be the head of the relationship, period. Call me a dinosaur (hard to do since I’m only 30, but go ahead and try), but that’s how it should be. I’ve been married for 10 1/2 years and my Husband isn’t shy about checking me when I get out of line. I don’t agree with the “reminders,” though part of that may be because I tend to get into enough by myself! (I’m a natural redhead, go figure!) I wouldn’t trade our relationship for anything in the world, though! :)
I get spanked every day, whether I have transgressed or not. It sounds harsh, but since my husaband started spanking me to keep me in order our marriage is much better. It hurts but he is much happier and sometimes instead of giving me six of the best he is kinder now and just gives me about 2 and makes me write lines, again it is a bit humiliating but he is happy so so am i.
i am spanked when im being bad but never hard…just enough for the point to come acrossed u better get it together…sometimes i am put to bed afterwards…it depends on if i relent or stay cranky. i think spanking is a good thing if both are in agreement on the issue..it helps us girls maintain some balance if done outta love not anger. alao it can relieve stress if u work too much or have alot of pressure on u constantly..good to let go and cry it out.
W0w! I wish my husband would spank me when I get naughty. He just break our things.
My husband and I have been together for 16 years and for 16 years he’s been spanking me when he thinks I deserve it. I can’t say that I always agree with him at the time, but he somehow manages to being me around to his way of thinking.
I don’t get reminder spankings, I do however get stress reliever spankings, that’s what my husband calls them. They mostly happen when I haven’t really done anything wrong, but I’m out of sorts and cranky. I’ll admit that they do the trick and I usually sleep like a baby afterwards.
Yes, wives should be spanked! I’ve been married for 12 years and my husband has always spanked me! I regularly find myself over his knee, my bottom bared and being given a good hard spank. He just reddens my bottom, never leaves any lasting marks or bruises. It’s great for both of us.
Another spanked wife here. I am spanked for disciplinary purposes when I break any of our agreed-upon rules, and also for stress-relief if needed. It is always done firmly but lovingly and makes me feel very secure. From his point of view it helps clear up issues with no lingering bad feeling. Works really well for us!
Yes I agree wives should be spanked. I have found that a I need a good hard bare bottom spanking as well. It helps with my attitude and out look on things as well as a good stress reliever! We were slow getting into spankings; but I have benefitted from them and probably should have had them all along. It is never too late …and a girl is never too old for a proper spanking or paddling!!
Absolutely a wife should be spanked by her husband. I get spanked on a weekly basis for bad attitude or for stress relief, and it works! I usually get is over the knee or on the bed with two pillows under by stomach. It always starts out with the back of the hand and usually finish with a wide wooden paddle, or back of a hairbrush. The sting definitely keeps me grounded! The spanking I receive are well deserved.
My husband spanks me. Usually with his belt. I asked him years ago if we could have a domestic discipline relationship. It was very slow going, many conversations about it. Light almost worthless spankings at first. Now he can wield that belt like a pro! I feel loved and secure in our relationship. Not so much because I’m a spanked wife, but because he loves me enough to give me what I asked for and need!
Yes wives should be spanked. They need to be put into their place when disobedient.
Yes wives should be spanked on a regular basis. Over the knee with a bare bottom while he uses a paddle is the best method. A sore bottom for a couple of days is a good reminder to behave and be a good wife. Without the spankings I become cranky and mouthy. If I am disobedient or disrespectful my bottom gets a good discipline session, without warning.
Yes wives should be spanked. I’m so sick of hearing wives in malls yelling at their husbands and embarrassing them. I also dislike gossipy women. I can’t believe what wimps some men are today who let wives verbally batter them. I think it should be legal for a husband to spank a wife with his bare hand, as long as he does no lasting damage. If I’m verbally mouthy and disrespectful, I’m over his knee in the bedroom having my panties pulled down and his big strong hand spanking my bare backside until I’m sobbing and apologizing profusely.
I think a lot more of this goes on than may people realize. There is a difference between asking us if we get spanked and asking us if we’ve been spanked. Getting something implies ongoing event. It might be in the recent past or anticipated in the foreseeable future. Been suggests sometime in the past.
If a bridezilla was spanked by her mother, father, aunt, or fiance on her wedding day, she could truthfully claim that she doesn’t get spanked. The same thing would be true if a wife was spanked one by her husband for calling her mother (her mother-in-law) a bitch. A wife soundly spanked twice during her seven year marriage might also make the same claim. Potential examples are endless. Yet, the anecdotal evidence abounds in family stories and neighborhood gossip of wive, girlfriends, moms, aunts, mother-in-laws, etc. winding up over someone’s knee after exceptional misbehavior.
Should wives be spanked ? I don ‘t think there is a ” yes” or “no ” answer to that question . I have been maried twice . My first wife would have never accepted to be spanked ! She probably would have tried to hit me with a frying pan if I even mentioned it !Because of that bad temper is one of the reasons we got divorced . My second wife ( that I took time and precautions to find ) is the exact oppisite ! She needs to feel , taken care off , watched over , disciplined , and yes , sometimes spanked , only when she really deserves it . Never too hard , never with an implement , just with the hand on her bottom . That always does the trick and puts her back in line . This method , I don ‘t use very often , but we have been married for 12 years and we are both happily married . What itches me , are those comments from people saying we sick in our heads ! Not everyone likes root beer and not everyone likes champagne : be tolerant !!!! I repeat , there is not a yes or no answer to that question !
I don’t think it’s for every wife. Non consensual spanking doesn’t work and I don’t think discipline spanking works either. However, I love being spanked. I want a good spanking once or twice a week. I ask for them. I’m not kidding at all and this is the honest truth. I spend a good half hour over my husband’s knee getting my bare bottom spanked. It keeps me calm and the endorphin rush is great. It’s a long spanking and it stings, but it doesn’t leave any lasting marks. He starts slowly and works it up. He stops from time to time. He knows how to do it to get that endorphin rush I love. I think if wives knew how calm it could make you if done right, they’d want them. Some men want them for this reason too. I’m glad I’m married to my spanker, as it’s a very intimate act. He would never want to do it to discipline me, but this keeps me so calm, he doesn’t have to! lol. Sometimes if I act up he jokes around and tells me I’m in for a good spanking. Totally hot. I’ve been married 20 years!
i am very thankful for the discipline my husband gives me it has helped me so tremendously and our relationship is full of respect for each other i love my spankings
I spank my wife when she is getting stressed out. She gets a good cry and after she is much more relaxed and composed. For us spanking is always over the knee and starts and ends with my hands. If I don’t spank her, her level of stress builds and it usually takes the hairbrush to get her to release all of her stress. We have been married since 1986. We don’t argue, no fighting and we are enjoying sex every day twice. I love her more now than when we first got married. She is the light of my life and our family is paterned after a 1950′s family. She is a stay at home mom (recently). We homeschool our kids and in our family the men and boys where pants and the women and daughter wear dress’s and skirts. We live a Christian Domestic Discipline life style. I know many of you may judge this but how many of married couple have sex twice a day and have been married 25 years and there is absolutely no fighting or argueing.
In Gods love Steven and Althea
Here’s my story… I married a man 14 years older then me. I was such an immature mouthy 22 year old at the time. I soon found my panties being yanked down and being pulled over his knee, getting my bare behind tanned but good by his hand. He moved on to a wicked wooden hairbrush that I dreaded. I would scream, shout and try to get out of it. He never left any bruises, just a bright red backside that hurt for two days. I’m an older woman now and years ago, it never occurred to me that a man couldn’t spank his wife. I was spanked a lot, but I had to grow up. I don’t advise it and it’s not legal these days, but years ago you couldn’t go to the police, as they’d laugh at you. I came from a Catholic family where divorce wasn’t an option back then. After a year of being spanked for my attitude and hating every embarrassing bare backside spanking over his knee, I decided I’d better change the way I mouthed off to my husband. He did move on to use his belt, by making me bend over the bed and stick my butt out… and that finally got through to me. I was a spoiled youngest child and he was an eldest child. I did grow up and he’d never think of spanking me now, unless it was sexual or kidding around. He was never unfair about it. I really was an obnoxious brat who cursed him out. He’d never talk to me the way I talked to him. We get along great, but I was rather abusive to him verbally if things did not go my way. He then felt a good old fashioned spanking for my childish attitude, was warranted. If I acted like a child, I got spanked like one. My parents never spanked me. We get on fine and today it’s considered abuse, but I wouldn’t change a thing about the past. I grew up and learned to curb my obnoxious mouth. It was hard on our marriage as it took on a daddy/daughter relationship. Once I grew up, we were equals and he felt no need to spank me. Once in a while he’ll joke around and swat my backside, but it’s not like the old days of me wishing I had not cursed him out. It hurt like anything and I soon regretted my actions.
I have been married for six years
and I am a very happy loved, honoured,
cherished, and spanked wife!!
Unlike what some may believe about women
or wives like me is that I actually was
the one that brought this lifestyle
choice to my husband..he agreed that it was
something that would be beneficial
to our marriage!
I might not always like or agree with the spanking
but I submit because I whole heartedly believe
my husband’s God given priveledge, right and
place in the home is the loving, caring, providing,
and yes ‘correcting’ leader!!!
In this day and age the place of the
husband has been dumified…. If I treat
my husband that way I would find myself bare bottomed
bent over my husbands knee receiving MANY painful
swats with a thick wooden paddle to the point that sitting
would be unpleasant for at least a week!! And rightfully so!!!!
Some men of todays generation need to grow a set, stand up and be the
leader that their home needs!!!
Furthermore, both of my sistets and
many of my friends and peers have
all had failed marriages and many of
them have asked us what our secret
is…we dont devulge about my
discipline as we beleieve that info
belongs only between us and behind
our doors…but its sad really as I
think all wives should have the loving
guidence and correction from their
husbands giving them the opportunity
to flourish in their God given role as
a submissive nurturing helpmeet
enabling their husbands to rise to their
rigtful place as the protector and guardian
life then becomes a peaceful harmonious
and blissfull place!
With all that being said…DD is definetly
not for couples whom struggle with
any type of abuse!! Or a husband with
a record of aggression or violent tempers!!
Also, it is my beleif that husbands
that spank their wives should have a good
handle on his anger as not to spank
for the sole purpose of retrobution
but for the betterment of the marriage.
I dont beleive that it is always wrong
for a husband to spank in anger…
infact some of my best lessons have
been learned while my bare backside
was being very thouroughly and delibertly
very painfully whipped by my angry husbands
belt!! Some conversations are better and
more quickly understood and obeyed through my bottom!!
I gotta admit, this post and a lot of the comments turned me on. I always liked it a little rough in bed, and sometimes my husband actually spanks me hard enough to leave his hand print on my backside when he takes me from behind, but I never really thought about it as a spanking fetish until now. Thank you!
Well, I cannot speak for all married couples, but I can say that spanking works perfectly in my marriage and has done so for the 16 years, my beloved husband and I have been together.
His punishments keep me in line and make me feel loved and secured – and very feminine!
His whippings are always very painful, and I definitely do not enjoy that pain it self, but I enjoy my husband for giving them to me, as I know that they are given out of love and for my own good!
I love him for that – and for a lot of other reasons!
Women need to heat up their erogenous zones to become aroused; either by tanning in the hot sun, sitting on a radiator or by spanking.
I was married 10 years before my wife blew the rent on a handbag one day, and her mum told both her and me that she deserved a hot bottom, and would phone back to ensure she had it. Later in the bedroom, she stood by my lap and seeked reassurance before being bent over and having her pristine size 36 tanned.
Nowadays she’s more recalcitrant, but agrees that her womanly size 42 still needs a husband’s firm hand occasionally?
my partner and myself have been together for nearly two years now ,when we met he had been previously living the 1950,s household lifestyle with another girl .when it got stale the relationship failed…his needs were not being met . he never really loved that person he says ,he always felt she was trying to please him ,not need what he thought she needed which was a spanking now and then . when he met me i hadn’t previously lived his lifestyle . i was very outspoken self willed ..then i got the first spanking for my bad mouth ..hated it . hated him for a short while , sulked like a child .. ,then soon realised out much it helped me .. .gone is the outspoken drama queen .the dis -trust i had on occasions have become almost nil now , the spankings are given every week as a maintance spanking ,and i would not dare answer him back like i used to ,Now i feel happy inside my own skin ,my self esteem has climbed to heights unknown before . He treats me like a princess all the time ,but insisted on the lifestyle if we were to be together ..now .madly in Love we no we have something Special .
I posted above. I am surprised that many young wives would need a spanking after the first year or two of marriage. I mean, sexually, sure, he spanks me good and hard as Paul said to heat up the erogenous zones. Years ago as a new wife, it was for punishment and it only took me a year to watch my mouth. My husband never spanked me for messing up and I don’t spend money we don’t have. I guess I never needed a spanking for anything other than attitude. It took a year of one red hot backside for me to not want that. Sexual spanking yes. A man can’t be abusive, has to be above reproach. He has to set an example. He can’t be a jerk or unfair. He has to control his temper. My husband used to walk away for quite a while until his temper was under control. Spankings usually were not immediate, but I was told to expect one and get ready for one. I hated the wait and having to strip from waist down and having to get the hairbrush. Punishment spankings really hurt and were totally embarrassing. I got the long lecture in between the smacks with the wooden hairbrush. It took forever that way and to be over someone’s knee or the bed, with your panties at your ankles is quite embarrassing. Sexual is different. I guess I don’t see why wives need it after a couple of years. I guess perhaps the sexual spankings I receive do keep me submissive. Perhaps that’s the answer. Sometimes I read posts from men on bulletin boards complaining about their wives and the bad attitudes… and I want to scream at them, be a man and spank the daylights out of her bare behind and she’ll think twice about being nasty to you next time. lol. I don’t though, because then people are shocked. I think men are afraid of being arrested or divorced. I think men should introduce it as a sexual thing and then sneak in the real spankings when they need to.
Susanne took the words right out of my mouth. I feel very much loved, secured and extremely feminine and submissive when my husband spanks me. We’re both approaching our thirties now and have been married for 9 years now. The first time my husband spanked me we had only been married for a couple of weeks and I was 19 years old and in one of those mouthy moods that teenagers, especially teen aged girls get into. I was working as a teller at a bank at that time and he was working for a construction company and both of us had just gotten home from work. Anyway, one word led to another and then he put me over his knee. I was wearing a short skirt and high heeled sandals and as soon as he put me over his knee, he pulled my panties down around my knees and gave me such a spanking. I was crying and so humiliated. But then he wiped away my tears and kissed me. I felt so much better and we went into the bedroom to do what all newlyweds love to do (blushing and smiling). The lovemaking was so good too. Every time he’s spanked me it seems the lovemaking is better than ever. Now we have three boys with a fourth on the way. He still spanks me, but only when I deserve it and not when I’ve been pregnant. The women’s libber types would all call me a traitor, but I think it’s only natural for the husband to wear the pants of the family and the wife to submit to him. I’m not a doormat, but my husband has the final word and that’s the way it should be. And like Steve said about his wife in his post, a good spanking helps relieve any stress that has built up. And like Steve’s wife, during and right after a good spanking I always have a good cry and then any stress is gone and my husband nearly always takes me into his arms and we make terrific love. Our favorite position is doggy style and I love the way he enters me with long, slow strokes at first sometimes massaging my tummy and boobs and sometimes slapping my already red butt. But I’ve noticed that my moans and sighs make him longer, thicker and harder during those times too. I guess it’s no surprise how I got pregnant four times in nine years…LOL. And now I’m a stay at home wife and mom and couldn’t be happier.