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Long ago when Adele Haze had a blog, she published and I linked to an interview with spanking model Bailey, then only two years into her illustrious career as a model for the Real Spankings family of websites. Adele’s blog has been gone for many years, but the archive bookmark still works, and it seems worth surfacing some more excerpts for long-time Bailey fans out there:

Thank you for talking to us, Bailey. Please, tell us a little about yourself, as much as you’re comfortable saying.

Well, let’s see. I am 19 years old. I live in Colorado, and have for most of my life. I have had a spanking fetish since I was a little girl. I love history and spend way too much time watching documentaries on the History Channel. I also have a bit of an internet addiction, and I love surfing and reading blogs, or looking up something new. Aside from that, I have many interests including reading, travel, and learning (ever so slowly and painfully) to cook.

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You’re into spanking in your private life, is that right?

Yes I am. I had a private spanking fetish well before I was engaging in any spanking on video, and it is still a very important part of my private life.

How much experience did you have with spanking before you started doing it professionally?

I have had several spanking partners over the last couple of years, both in full time relationships and more casually. Before I started doing it professionally I had been spanked by a couple different people, and had experienced most implements as well as differing levels of severity. Since I had been doing spanking privately for quite a while before I started doing the videos I’d say I had a fair bit of experience. However, it is very hard to compare what I do in my private life to what I do in videos, so I’m not sure how much the experience helped me when I actually started modelling.

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How many shoots have you done all in all, would you say? Can you give a number?

Oh goodness, I have no idea really. A lot. I’ve been shooting pretty much once a week since July 2005. There have been a few breaks in there (I went on a month long vacation, and a shoot here and there has been cancelled), but it’s been pretty steady otherwise. Is “several” close enough?

Does any particular shoot stand out?

I think probably the shoot I did for the movie “Conspiracy” stands out the most. I had a lot of fun with that one because it was different and there were more models involved. At a regular shoot I don’t get to work with other girls really, so it was a real treat to get to meet the other girls. Also, I was really excited to meet the famous Niki Flynn and work with her. It was also the most severe shoot I had been involved with up until that point, so it really stuck with me. Watching the final paddling scene still makes me shiver a bit.

Does such a busy shooting schedule affect your private spanking life?

It can, yes. Shooting every week means I have to take certain things into consideration before playing with anyone else. It isn’t the end of the world if I show up to a shoot with marks from a play encounter, but it isn’t really encouraged either. It can be hard to find the right time to play at the intensity that I’d like if I know I have a shoot coming up. Often the result is that I simply don’t get to play. If I do play with someone I find myself saying, “Remember I have to shoot…” In addition to avoiding marks, I am frequently sore. It can be hard to get up for a hard spanking at home when I am still feeling the effects off my last shoot. However even with these considerations I think I enjoy plenty of spankings privately.

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Do you ever wake up in the morning and think – oh, I wish I didn’t have to shoot today?

Sometimes. I get pretty bad nerves right before hand, so I often feel that way just before going in. However after my shoot I usually am really happy and proud of myself for making it through another one, so the feeling never lasts.

You have very fair skin, and mark really easily. Do you think this is an advantage, or do you wish your skin was tougher?

All of the above? I think a lot of the members like to see marks, so usually my marking easily has been a good thing. However I also feel like I could take more if I didn’t mark as much. Since I’ve been shooting my skins seems to have developed a bit of a tolerance, though, and I don’t mark quite as much as I used to. The same paddling that would have bruised me severely and come close to breaking skin last year probably would only leave light bruising today.

If there is one implement you would rather never be spanked with again – what is it?

This is a terribly unfair question. I’m not sure it’s safe to go on record as hating a particular impliment. The result almost certainly would be that I would suddenly be getting spanked with it a lot more often. Though as I said before I do have a bit of a fascination with all things that are traditionally “domestic”. Unfortunately for me that includes some of the more severe things like hairbrushes and wooden spoons. I guess I have a love/ hate relationship with those. Hairbrushes especially make me cringe. Also school style paddles are pretty ouchy.

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And finally, what is your favourite position to be spanked in?

I really prefer to be spanked over the knee. The reason for this is that I really feel that over the knee spankings are far more intimate than any of the bent over positions. I also really like the vulnerability that comes with an OTK spanking in part because of its childish associations. It hits all my buttons with regard to “firm loving discipline”.

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Adele Haze has done another shoot for Lupus:

As usual, it was severe — and boy howdy does her bottom look sore!

That’s the third in a series of posts where she writes about her experience, firstly as it was happening and then a bit more of a retrospective look. Just like last time, it appears to have been an intense experience she greatly enjoyed:

This afternoon I texted my best friend to update her on the progress of my Lupus bruises. I described the lurid mass of purple covering my buttocks and the top of my thighs. And I added: “It didn’t hurt enough to cause that kind of damage!”

I sent the message, but then I remembered a single thought that had tolled in my head as first the cane, then the whip cut into my bottom: “I’m not made to stand this kind of pain; how can I take any more?”

Both feelings were genuine: at the time, I wondered if I could stand the agony; today, I remember mostly the joy at having pushed through. Human beings forget the pain; bodies and souls gloss over the hurt, until it’s only a breath of memory, of emotion. I know the pain was dreadful, but only because I remember thinking so. Three days later, my body is already forgetting.

What I remember is joy.

The joy first presented itself the night before the shoot, as periodic shallow cuts of fear. I packed up my stuff: a dress (I wouldn’t feel like wearing jeans), cheap disposable knickers (to soak up blood), tubes of arnica cream, moisturiser and disinfectant. These are not usually the things I bring along to shoots, other than moisturiser. Their presence signalled to me that, like an explorer packing up her compass and maps, I was officially off on an adventure.

There was the joy of acting, such as it was. The role wasn’t difficult: I was an ingenue in a white pinny, with just enough lines to pretend I spoke some Czech. I slid into character painlessly, and preserved enough of a grip on reality that following direction, hitting marks and staying aware of camera lines wasn’t as much of a wrench as it can be on more emotionally difficult films.
The fear returned in a numbing wave when I first saw the whip I would be asked to take. It was a tightly braided leather snake, all knots over its entire length. Producer Thomas told me later that it had been a gift from a fan, and was one of the most severe implements in the Lupus arsenal – a fact I’m glad I hadn’t been aware of before my scene. In the hands of Lars, who is an imposing man even when you’re aware of his sweet nature, it looked terrifying. But this fear, too, was joy.

Among other things, it sounds like they used the dreaded bull’s pizzle whip (the one I still can’t find a commercial source for) on her:

5:17pm Oh my dear fucking baby Jesus, I just saw the whip they’re using on me. Lars Moebius showed up on set nonchalantly waving it around. Mr Haze could have acted less amused.

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9:50pm So, the monster whip turns out to have been a pizzle. Figures! Fighting endorphin low with chocolate.

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The blog-friend we in this community knew as Adele Haze has long since moved on from making spanking porn to new projects and to some new identities. She goes by “AJ” on her old Twitter account and by Josephine Temple for her webcamming work. (I’m not breaking any secrets here; she links these identities herself in her Twitter bios.) The camming world is a bit obscure to me, so I was pleased and interested to come across this happy account from about a year ago by one of Josephine Temple’s camming clients:

Elsewhere on this blog I have alluded to the wonderful Josephine Temple. Josephine, apart from having a mighty back catalogue in spanking movies, and being a writer of her own spanking fiction, is a wonderfully kinky cam model of whom I have grown very fond.

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One afternoon my eye was caught by picture of a wonderful bottom in some lacy knickers. The bottom belonged to somebody called ‘Josephine Temple’ who according to the profile was a ‘Genuine BDSM player.’ Ok so far so good, but from the front it was a face I recognised immediately from lots of Spanking Tube and Dreams of Spanking clips. My interest was now thoroughly pricked, especially as I had recently enjoyed seeing her interviewed and seriously caned as part of the ‘Backlash’ campaign.

Josephine is such a ball of sexy kinkiness, armed with possibly one of the most mischievously wicked smiles in the universe. Face to face she comes across even more intelligent, engaged, and articulate than she does on film. What really impressed me upfront was she took time to negotiate the session to make sure it was going to be right, a level of care which to be honest I did not expect but was hugely grateful for. The 20 mins we shared the first time was lovely, tugging at all my favourite, spanking, humiliation, flr, arse worshiping fetishes. We cammed a few times and what was lovely, her being really a ‘genuine BDSM player’ I was able to talk to her about my somewhat stunted experiences and my desires to actually break out from this. Talking to her gave me confidence, and ultimately it was she who recommended I see Miss Hunter to make my fantasy of being caned come to life.

However, I am easily distracted. Upon reading this testimonial, the reference to Spanking Tube provoked an irreverent thought: they’d love Josephine even more if she had a spanking tube like this one!

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Hey, people. This nice carpet beater spanking photo is eluding my best efforts to source it. It’s been widely used on the web as the source material for celebrity spanking fakes, but I can’t find a watermarked version of the original or any indication of what spanking porn company made it. Any ideas? (Update: Firm Hand.)

Update: Thanks to Adele Haze (@AdeleHaze) I got a near-instant attribution. That’s Ariel Anderssen appearing as Amelia Rutherford at Firm Hand Spanking. Thanks Adele!

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Adele Haze takes a moment to answer the question Is It Fun Spanking Boys?

If by “boys” we mean “grown consenting men”, then I would like to take a moment to let my eyes glaze over in a lust-filled daydream. How much fun is spanking boys, let me count the ways…

Purely physically, it’s a real sensual treat to have a boy over my lap: a long body, so large and present, hard in places, soft where it matters. Buttocks exposed, skin not yet reddened, but about to bounce and wobble under my hand. Watching marks appear and fill with colour as the spanking progresses, hearing his breath catch as he registers the pain, little noises he lets himself make. A slight tingling in my palm; knowing that his bottom is tingling much more acutely and urgently.

If you didn’t know before, now you do. (And if you did know or suspect, but were lacking a “boy” to spank? My Bethie has been working on that for you, and her Bottom Seek site continues to grow; if you are looking for a boy to spank, she has accumulated hundreds of ’em!)

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When was the last time you saw mention of a M/m caning here on Spanking Blog? If it’s happened at all, it’s been so many years I don’t remember; and that’s because, y’know, not my thing, right? But Adele Haze says that this story by Graham at the The S Word is “The best M/m school caning story I’ve read for at least 10 years, and one of the best spanking stories ever.”

Lady has a point. It’s an awesome story. The kind that’s too dense to excerpt; I just ran through the story a second time looking for a couple of paragraphs to drop into a blockquote for you here, but I couldn’t find any that weren’t too tightly tied to what had gone before. So, blogging cliche that it to say this, all I can suggest is that you read the whole thing.

An Adele Haze tweet led me to photographer Frederic Fontenoy, whose recent web galleries are stylish and deeply kinky. Here’s one of the tamer ones just to give you a flavor:

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I also like the tension in this photo that’s two down in the same gallery:

[photo removed at request of the photographer]

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