Comments on: Reader Questions About Whips And Canes And Switching http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/ Adult Erotic Spanking At Its Best Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:11:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: The Stockroom “Red” Sexmas Sale - Spanking Blog http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/#comment-64792 The Stockroom “Red” Sexmas Sale - Spanking Blog Wed, 08 Dec 2010 20:40:42 +0000 http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/#comment-64792 [...] and final red impact toy in our stocking-stuffer lineup today is the classic short riding crop, long a favorite of mine, redone in red holiday finery. Maybe it’s just me, but I almost don’t feel like a [...] [...] and final red impact toy in our stocking-stuffer lineup today is the classic short riding crop, long a favorite of mine, redone in red holiday finery. Maybe it’s just me, but I almost don’t feel like a [...]

]]> By: TP http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/#comment-62775 TP Sat, 27 Feb 2010 22:40:28 +0000 http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/#comment-62775 In response to the last comment in "A's" response. I am in a relationship where we both equally "switch." However, as to who's in charge, definitely the one being spanked--he/she has control with the safe word. It goes on only as long as he/she wishes or can take it. In response to the last comment in “A’s” response. I am in a relationship where we both equally “switch.” However, as to who’s in charge, definitely the one being spanked–he/she has control with the safe word. It goes on only as long as he/she wishes or can take it.

]]> By: "A" http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/#comment-62252 "A" Tue, 01 Dec 2009 00:47:23 +0000 http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/#comment-62252 Thank you so much!!!! First off, I was relieved to see I was put in the category of "nice letter", as I know from time to time, you've received letters that annoyed you, although those are generally misinformed, rife with misspelling/grammatical errors/etc. or have an annoying know-it-all tone. Nonetheless, I was relieved. I really appreciate all the time/effort you spent in gathering the information. I know what a trial it must have been to see those striped butts again..:P As for the switching, I also appreciate the information. (He is interested in switching me, in the first form you mentioned though. lol) I'm very lucky with my husband. If I had to categorize myself, I'd say I'm 90% submissive, with 10% of paybacks a bitch & so am I. I'm not a CBT Domme, I'm not a grovel at my feet you withering slug Domme...I really wouldn't even classify myself as Domme, but on occasion I like to take charge. Fortunately for me, my husband is 90% of the time, thoroughly willing to spank me, tease me, grab the hair at the nape of my neck and ask me what I really thought I was going to get away with..etc. But 10% of the time, some portion of his brain, gets a real kick out of me taking charge. We both love it, we both get off on it, but it's really hard to find information for that sort of lifestyle! The only thing I'd have left to say, (after this, you may regret having 2500 as your comment length :) ) is that if you or anyone reading this, has any advice on how to clearly define which of us is in charge at that time, that would be a big help. Neither one of us has quite figured that out yet, and you can imagine how that would be complicated if we both thought we were in dominant mode. Thanks so much! "A" Thank you so much!!!! First off, I was relieved to see I was put in the category of “nice letter”, as I know from time to time, you’ve received letters that annoyed you, although those are generally misinformed, rife with misspelling/grammatical errors/etc. or have an annoying know-it-all tone. Nonetheless, I was relieved.

I really appreciate all the time/effort you spent in gathering the information. I know what a trial it must have been to see those striped butts again..:P

As for the switching, I also appreciate the information. (He is interested in switching me, in the first form you mentioned though. lol) I’m very lucky with my husband. If I had to categorize myself, I’d say I’m 90% submissive, with 10% of paybacks a bitch & so am I. I’m not a CBT Domme, I’m not a grovel at my feet you withering slug Domme…I really wouldn’t even classify myself as Domme, but on occasion I like to take charge.

Fortunately for me, my husband is 90% of the time, thoroughly willing to spank me, tease me, grab the hair at the nape of my neck and ask me what I really thought I was going to get away with..etc. But 10% of the time, some portion of his brain, gets a real kick out of me taking charge. We both love it, we both get off on it, but it’s really hard to find information for that sort of lifestyle!

The only thing I’d have left to say, (after this, you may regret having 2500 as your comment length :) ) is that if you or anyone reading this, has any advice on how to clearly define which of us is in charge at that time, that would be a big help. Neither one of us has quite figured that out yet, and you can imagine how that would be complicated if we both thought we were in dominant mode.

Thanks so much!
“A”

]]> By: Abel http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/#comment-62248 Abel Mon, 30 Nov 2009 18:21:31 +0000 http://www.spankingblog.com/2009/11/30/reader-questions-about-whips-and-canes-and-switching/#comment-62248 Great article! Thanks for the kind comment about my "12 Tips" post - and I *love* the teddy bear suggestion :-) Great article! Thanks for the kind comment about my “12 Tips” post – and I *love* the teddy bear suggestion :-)

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