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		<title>By: Tied Down For Anal Sex - Bondage Blog</title>
		<link>http://www.spankingblog.com/2008/10/11/the-enjoyment-of-a-man-with-a-maid/#comment-59697</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 16:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] is some delicious bondage and anal sex in this excerpt &#8212; seen in greater length, with whipping, at Spanking Blog &#8212; from The Way Of A Man With A Maid:  Before she could guess [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] is some delicious bondage and anal sex in this excerpt &#8212; seen in greater length, with whipping, at Spanking Blog &#8212; from The Way Of A Man With A Maid:  Before she could guess [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Zille</title>
		<link>http://www.spankingblog.com/2008/10/11/the-enjoyment-of-a-man-with-a-maid/#comment-59361</link>
		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 03:25:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SpankBoss -- very good points!   :D

Of course, the kind of perv I am, you&#039;ve just made the story all the hotter for me -- thank you!

And I never think analysis is wasted!  And what better topic than Victorian or spanking erotica?!

Happily, the facial cum shots are being supplemented with &quot;cream pies,&quot; nowadays....  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SpankBoss &#8212; very good points!   :D</p>
<p>Of course, the kind of perv I am, you&#8217;ve just made the story all the hotter for me &#8212; thank you!</p>
<p>And I never think analysis is wasted!  And what better topic than Victorian or spanking erotica?!</p>
<p>Happily, the facial cum shots are being supplemented with &#8220;cream pies,&#8221; nowadays&#8230;.  ;)</p>
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		<title>By: Sue</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 17:47:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I love &quot;Man With a Maid&quot;. But that excerpt is from Volume 1, which only has one good spanking scene in it that I can remember, and a lot of it is pretty boring. But Volume 3 is fantastic! In it Jack meets Helen Hotspur, a female dominant who likes to &quot;train&quot; young women, and she convinces him to open a school for the &quot;education&quot; lol of young ladies. It is never brutal, but there is a lot of spanking and buggering lol. If you can find it, I highly recommend it! (I bought my copy off a rack of regular paperbacks in a souvenier shop when I visited England)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I love &#8220;Man With a Maid&#8221;. But that excerpt is from Volume 1, which only has one good spanking scene in it that I can remember, and a lot of it is pretty boring. But Volume 3 is fantastic! In it Jack meets Helen Hotspur, a female dominant who likes to &#8220;train&#8221; young women, and she convinces him to open a school for the &#8220;education&#8221; lol of young ladies. It is never brutal, but there is a lot of spanking and buggering lol. If you can find it, I highly recommend it! (I bought my copy off a rack of regular paperbacks in a souvenier shop when I visited England)</p>
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		<title>By: SpankBoss</title>
		<link>http://www.spankingblog.com/2008/10/11/the-enjoyment-of-a-man-with-a-maid/#comment-59340</link>
		<dc:creator>SpankBoss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 19:29:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zille, it was a long time ago, but I think I ordered that book by mail, out of a book catalog that had a &quot;dirty books&quot; section and no means of screening their customers by age.  ;-)  I would have been going on a vague description of &quot;Victorian Erotica&quot; or some such, with no real idea what I was getting.

As for the anal sex, Jack does speak of using a lot of cold cream, so at least he&#039;s not describing the &quot;dry plunge&quot; you see so much of in badly-written porn.  But, yeah, Alice would have been tense (understatement) and it shouldn&#039;t have been that easy, I wouldn&#039;t think.  Some women do report entirely  pain-free anal penetration, but they also speak of lots of foreplay, extreme relaxation, and plenty of lube.  There&#039;s also the possibility that they are processing pain as pleasure in an erotic context, and so don&#039;t recognize the sensation as negative.

As for the Victorian stroke book writers, they were men from a culture that had close to *zero* regard for the well-being of their female sexual playthings.  They didn&#039;t much *care* whether the woman enjoyed herself, as a rule, and they were writing fantasy in any case, so the idea that they&#039;d pretty up an anal rape isn&#039;t that surprising.  I think Jack&#039;s phrasing &quot;I, with very little difficulty, shoved my prick halfway up Alice’s bottom with &lt;i&gt;apparently&lt;/i&gt; little or no pain to her&quot; (emphasis added) is telling; he didn&#039;t &lt;i&gt;notice&lt;/i&gt; that she was in pain, but she was already &quot;shrieking&quot; and &quot;struggling&quot; and &quot;wriggling&quot; so what exactly was he basing that opinion on?  Really he just didn&#039;t care very much.

All of which is probably too much analysis for a stroke book; written porn is traditionally not much more realistic than any other kind.  A hundred years from now there will be ethno-historians trying to figure out why late twentieth-century American men preferred to pull out at the last minute and jerk themselves to climax, a rare fetish in the bedroom but boringly frequent in the pornos.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zille, it was a long time ago, but I think I ordered that book by mail, out of a book catalog that had a &#8220;dirty books&#8221; section and no means of screening their customers by age.  ;-)  I would have been going on a vague description of &#8220;Victorian Erotica&#8221; or some such, with no real idea what I was getting.</p>
<p>As for the anal sex, Jack does speak of using a lot of cold cream, so at least he&#8217;s not describing the &#8220;dry plunge&#8221; you see so much of in badly-written porn.  But, yeah, Alice would have been tense (understatement) and it shouldn&#8217;t have been that easy, I wouldn&#8217;t think.  Some women do report entirely  pain-free anal penetration, but they also speak of lots of foreplay, extreme relaxation, and plenty of lube.  There&#8217;s also the possibility that they are processing pain as pleasure in an erotic context, and so don&#8217;t recognize the sensation as negative.</p>
<p>As for the Victorian stroke book writers, they were men from a culture that had close to *zero* regard for the well-being of their female sexual playthings.  They didn&#8217;t much *care* whether the woman enjoyed herself, as a rule, and they were writing fantasy in any case, so the idea that they&#8217;d pretty up an anal rape isn&#8217;t that surprising.  I think Jack&#8217;s phrasing &#8220;I, with very little difficulty, shoved my prick halfway up Alice’s bottom with <i>apparently</i> little or no pain to her&#8221; (emphasis added) is telling; he didn&#8217;t <i>notice</i> that she was in pain, but she was already &#8220;shrieking&#8221; and &#8220;struggling&#8221; and &#8220;wriggling&#8221; so what exactly was he basing that opinion on?  Really he just didn&#8217;t care very much.</p>
<p>All of which is probably too much analysis for a stroke book; written porn is traditionally not much more realistic than any other kind.  A hundred years from now there will be ethno-historians trying to figure out why late twentieth-century American men preferred to pull out at the last minute and jerk themselves to climax, a rare fetish in the bedroom but boringly frequent in the pornos.</p>
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		<title>By: Zille</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zille</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 18:03:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey SpankBoss!

I&#039;m so glad to find another &quot;A Man with a Maid&quot; fan!  How did you discover the book?  (And how cool that you got a comment from &quot;Jessie&quot; -- I can&#039;t even imagine what I would have done if I&#039;d have found it at age 12!  Although I know I was fascinated by spanking by about age 8!)

That section you quote is (of course) one of my favorites from the book.  But it does have an item of curiousity for me, and that is that although Alice is a virgin in her bottom-hole, she doesn&#039;t seem to feel pain when first penetrated there -- and roughly, too!  That is just NOT my experience (although, pervert that I am, I very much like to have a bit of pain with my anal sex!)  

But I&#039;ve found similar in The Pearl, and other fine Victorian works by &quot;Anonymous&quot;  ;)

Do you think the Victorians for some reason didn&#039;t think anal sex was ... ummm, difficult?  Were they so fixated on the breaking of the hymen that they figured that a hole with no hymen wouldn&#039;t have a problem?  Or perhaps, since they&#039;d been buggered at public school, and it didn&#039;t hurt them, they figured it wouldn&#039;t hurt a woman...?  (I imagine the guys writing these stories were probably not getting any, and so made everything up....)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey SpankBoss!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so glad to find another &#8220;A Man with a Maid&#8221; fan!  How did you discover the book?  (And how cool that you got a comment from &#8220;Jessie&#8221; &#8212; I can&#8217;t even imagine what I would have done if I&#8217;d have found it at age 12!  Although I know I was fascinated by spanking by about age 8!)</p>
<p>That section you quote is (of course) one of my favorites from the book.  But it does have an item of curiousity for me, and that is that although Alice is a virgin in her bottom-hole, she doesn&#8217;t seem to feel pain when first penetrated there &#8212; and roughly, too!  That is just NOT my experience (although, pervert that I am, I very much like to have a bit of pain with my anal sex!)  </p>
<p>But I&#8217;ve found similar in The Pearl, and other fine Victorian works by &#8220;Anonymous&#8221;  ;)</p>
<p>Do you think the Victorians for some reason didn&#8217;t think anal sex was &#8230; ummm, difficult?  Were they so fixated on the breaking of the hymen that they figured that a hole with no hymen wouldn&#8217;t have a problem?  Or perhaps, since they&#8217;d been buggered at public school, and it didn&#8217;t hurt them, they figured it wouldn&#8217;t hurt a woman&#8230;?  (I imagine the guys writing these stories were probably not getting any, and so made everything up&#8230;.)</p>
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