Good Kink Motto

Extremely refreshing observation from Jake Bullet:

“I think its official. I am a dirty pervert. Oh well, I kind of like it. Moving along.”

Maybe it’s just because I read so many blogs where folks are exploring their own sexual thinking, but after awhile I grow weary (and, sadly, impatient) with the endless self-analysis, guilt, and fear that so many kinky people are dealing with. I suspect every kinky person goes through this at some point, but the idea is to work through it, become comfortable with who you are, and start having fun. Unfortunately, some people just get stuck there, and don’t seem to be able to give themselves permission to be happy kinksters.

Moving along….

  1. Jake_Bullet commented on September 13th, 2005:

    Woo hoo, I have again been quoted by the SpankBoss. I’ve gotten to the point where I am comfertable with many aspects of my strange sex life. And I like being more comfertable with it. And I love it when I get quoted. Thanks SpankBoss.

    Jake Bullet

  2. Donna commented on September 13th, 2005:

    Well said. I quit feeling guilty many moons ago. Now, I just get mad because everyday family issues get in the way of my playtime!

  3. Hope commented on September 13th, 2005:

    You mean there are people living their lives who have absolutely no kinks at all? Not if the psychiatrists are telling the truth….

  4. MR.G commented on September 14th, 2005:

    Just maybe if the shrinks of the world (most of whom should be heavily medicated themselves) would congratulate us for our kinks vs promoting the notion that kink was both very bad and “treatable.” To accept “treatment” one must assume guilt and a desire to become normal. HA. None of us are normal and bever will be.

  5. Leesa commented on September 14th, 2005:

    I long ago decided that the reason I want to be spanked is because I’m horny. So be it.

  6. kristi commented on October 6th, 2005:

    All i know is this is my first experience with a spanking site and i think i will enjoy immensely.In the last couple years i have been with someone that enjoys spanking my fat bottom and it never occured to me to feel guilty over wanting to feel the smack of whatever he chose to swat my butt with.It was what he wanted and i am more than willing to submit for the pleasure.

  7. pro1337 commented on October 10th, 2005:

    well, the society that defines the word perverted for us is simply sexually immature if you ask me.

  8. Michiko commented on October 10th, 2005:

    I just discovered your blog and I like what I see! yes. to hell with guilt, being a happy kinkster is much better (well, not for the masochists, of course) thanks for the good work and the fun.

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