Although I never would have known it before this spanking blog got me to trawling daily through the spanking interweb, it turns out that “How do I get my man to spank me?” is very high on the canonical list of frequently asked spanking questions. I’ve linked fairly often to various answers, but this one from Annie’s Blog is one of the better schemes I’ve seen:
Being a little sneak, what I would do now (and what I would have done then if I’d thought it through and planned it) is rent several movies, among them one of those John Wayne movies we’ve been talking about. Debbie’s suggestion of “McLintock” is a great one. I would toss off “This was such a great movie and I haven’t seen it in years – thought it would be fun”. What man won’t enjoy watching a John Wayne movie, too. Another movie I would throw in the stack is a sexy one to begin with, to set the mood. All I can think of at the moment is “Troy” with that sooo hot scene with Brad Pitt and the virgin priestess. I’m sure there are better but I would be sure to choose a guy kinda movie as opposed to a chick flick. Maybe the new “Mr. and Mrs. Smith” when that comes out on DVD.
I would make a night of it with some good munchies and wearing a “little nothing” to let him know a sensuous evening is in the offing. The sexy movie allows for snuggling and smooching and both getting a little hot, of course making a big deal of the sexy parts. Then comes the John Wayne/Maureen O’Hara movie when you are both relaxed and having fun. When the spanking scene comes up, I would say something like “Oooo, that’s getting me kinda hot, how about you?” Being me, at that point I probably would lay across his lap, giggling and wiggling my hiney playfully. That’s all it is, right? Play and being silly. Easy out if he says, “No way! Are you nuts?!” There’s your answer.
If he goes for it and gives you a few swats, then it’s a playful “Mmmmm more!” See where it takes you. If he gets into it, go ahead and be bold, let him know it’s turning you on. Maybe go as far as taking your panties down and tempting him with your bare bottom telling him “This is getting me sooo hot, baby! More!” Showing him with a blowjob or the like could likely cement the deal.
Keep the discussion going the next day, again when you are both relaxed. “Last night was such fun. I can’t believe that spanking made me so hot!” See how he responds. If he’s ho-hum at best, you might be out of luck. If it’s positive, reinforce it. If and when the time is right, confess your desires.