Comments on: Finding A Spanking Partner, Using Standard English

By: Sigurd Yarlson

Sigurd Yarlson — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 19:46:15 +0000

While I would agree, in principle, that we are becoming a functionally illiterate society, and manners and grace are on the decline, and worth saving, I have a different concern to express. I, too have attempted to meet a spanking partner, and met with considerable frustration. I am a straight male switch, so I would have thought, with both female spankers and spankees available, I would have met one by now. But, many people seem to want an “e-relationship” that is to say, they only want to flirt online, and are not willing to meet. Which is what I believe this gentleman is attempting to say, also.

By: Reader

Reader — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:01:09 +0000

Hey! I’m a girl, here.. and I don’t think punctuation and grammar in chatting is important. Anyway, you could have a complete asshole on the other end communicating with you in perfect written English. You think he’s an instant charm because he has mastered the English language.. you set up a date and find out the hard way that the portrait of himself he’d projected in your own mind was actually miles from the truth. If you’re concerned about “careful emails,” then please, let him know before you judge him. If he understands that it’s important to you, and he still ignores it, then of course, he’s not for you. But don’t deny people a chance simply because they are used to typing online in “internet chat” mode, sheesh!

I still believe the best way to meet someone is in person. And then.. work your magic. If you like ‘em and figure you can trust them.. see how they’d react to a bit of role-play… :winks:

(p.s./* i coulda typd da whole thing lyk this =P =P )

By: Kacey

Kacey — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 04:53:27 +0000

I fully agree about using some proper electronic communication etiquite. It doesn’t have to be doctoral thesis worthy, but showing a little effort is greatly appreciated.

That being said– what advice did you give him? Because I’d love to know how to find a safe for-real spanking partner…

(Love your site btw…)

By: Julie

Julie — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Ironically, I just wrote a post about exactly this. Ok, I didn’t “write it”–I posted all the terrible responses I got to my posting. (Don’t worry, details are obscured.)

http://analyzejulie.blogspot.com/2005/01/text.html

By: sandy

sandy — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Speaking as a woman: YES, punctuation and capitalization matters! This is for exactly the reasons you’ve listed: if he can’t be bothered to send me a careful email then he’s probably not going to be bothered to do other “little things” that I may enjoy — holding a door, offering to drive, etc.