Comments on: Should Wives Be Spanked?

By: Rachel

Rachel — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 22:40:30 +0000

Susanne took the words right out of my mouth. I feel very much loved, secured and extremely feminine and submissive when my husband spanks me. We’re both approaching our thirties now and have been married for 9 years now. The first time my husband spanked me we had only been married for a couple of weeks and I was 19 years old and in one of those mouthy moods that teenagers, especially teen aged girls get into. I was working as a teller at a bank at that time and he was working for a construction company and both of us had just gotten home from work. Anyway, one word led to another and then he put me over his knee. I was wearing a short skirt and high heeled sandals and as soon as he put me over his knee, he pulled my panties down around my knees and gave me such a spanking. I was crying and so humiliated. But then he wiped away my tears and kissed me. I felt so much better and we went into the bedroom to do what all newlyweds love to do (blushing and smiling). The lovemaking was so good too. Every time he’s spanked me it seems the lovemaking is better than ever. Now we have three boys with a fourth on the way. He still spanks me, but only when I deserve it and not when I’ve been pregnant. The women’s libber types would all call me a traitor, but I think it’s only natural for the husband to wear the pants of the family and the wife to submit to him. I’m not a doormat, but my husband has the final word and that’s the way it should be. And like Steve said about his wife in his post, a good spanking helps relieve any stress that has built up. And like Steve’s wife, during and right after a good spanking I always have a good cry and then any stress is gone and my husband nearly always takes me into his arms and we make terrific love. Our favorite position is doggy style and I love the way he enters me with long, slow strokes at first sometimes massaging my tummy and boobs and sometimes slapping my already red butt. But I’ve noticed that my moans and sighs make him longer, thicker and harder during those times too. I guess it’s no surprise how I got pregnant four times in nine years…LOL. And now I’m a stay at home wife and mom and couldn’t be happier.

By: virginia

virginia — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 07:18:51 +0000

I posted above. I am surprised that many young wives would need a spanking after the first year or two of marriage. I mean, sexually, sure, he spanks me good and hard as Paul said to heat up the erogenous zones. Years ago as a new wife, it was for punishment and it only took me a year to watch my mouth. My husband never spanked me for messing up and I don’t spend money we don’t have. I guess I never needed a spanking for anything other than attitude. It took a year of one red hot backside for me to not want that. Sexual spanking yes. A man can’t be abusive, has to be above reproach. He has to set an example. He can’t be a jerk or unfair. He has to control his temper. My husband used to walk away for quite a while until his temper was under control. Spankings usually were not immediate, but I was told to expect one and get ready for one. I hated the wait and having to strip from waist down and having to get the hairbrush. Punishment spankings really hurt and were totally embarrassing. I got the long lecture in between the smacks with the wooden hairbrush. It took forever that way and to be over someone’s knee or the bed, with your panties at your ankles is quite embarrassing. Sexual is different. I guess I don’t see why wives need it after a couple of years. I guess perhaps the sexual spankings I receive do keep me submissive. Perhaps that’s the answer. Sometimes I read posts from men on bulletin boards complaining about their wives and the bad attitudes… and I want to scream at them, be a man and spank the daylights out of her bare behind and she’ll think twice about being nasty to you next time. lol. I don’t though, because then people are shocked. I think men are afraid of being arrested or divorced. I think men should introduce it as a sexual thing and then sneak in the real spankings when they need to.

By: katie

katie — Sat, 31 Dec 2011 11:00:50 +0000

my partner and myself have been together for nearly two years now ,when we met he had been previously living the 1950,s household lifestyle with another girl .when it got stale the relationship failed…his needs were not being met . he never really loved that person he says ,he always felt she was trying to please him ,not need what he thought she needed which was a spanking now and then . when he met me i hadn’t previously lived his lifestyle . i was very outspoken self willed ..then i got the first spanking for my bad mouth ..hated it . hated him for a short while , sulked like a child .. ,then soon realised out much it helped me .. .gone is the outspoken drama queen .the dis -trust i had on occasions have become almost nil now , the spankings are given every week as a maintance spanking ,and i would not dare answer him back like i used to ,Now i feel happy inside my own skin ,my self esteem has climbed to heights unknown before . He treats me like a princess all the time ,but insisted on the lifestyle if we were to be together ..now .madly in Love we no we have something Special .

By: paul

paul — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 11:13:07 +0000

Women need to heat up their erogenous zones to become aroused; either by tanning in the hot sun, sitting on a radiator or by spanking.
I was married 10 years before my wife blew the rent on a handbag one day, and her mum told both her and me that she deserved a hot bottom, and would phone back to ensure she had it. Later in the bedroom, she stood by my lap and seeked reassurance before being bent over and having her pristine size 36 tanned.
Nowadays she’s more recalcitrant, but agrees that her womanly size 42 still needs a husband’s firm hand occasionally?

By: Susanne

Susanne — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:47:10 +0000

Well, I cannot speak for all married couples, but I can say that spanking works perfectly in my marriage and has done so for the 16 years, my beloved husband and I have been together.
His punishments keep me in line and make me feel loved and secured – and very feminine!
His whippings are always very painful, and I definitely do not enjoy that pain it self, but I enjoy my husband for giving them to me, as I know that they are given out of love and for my own good!
I love him for that – and for a lot of other reasons!